This started out as a blog about my kids and (ex)husband but has evolved into my thoughts about life and the world we live in. My life isn't even close to what it was when I first started this posting. I'm finding that I'm much more of a feminist than I once thought, and I'm learning more and more that my blackness is beautiful and desirable. I'm not single, have three children, and work full time. I live in the South.
Ok SO many things about this video gave me life! 1.Janelle Monae getting that advertisement money in the beginning 2. Her hair 3.Her and her “sorority” sisters being so cute 4. Her HAIR 5.Janelle Monae fake shimmying was HILARIOUS and cute as hell 5. HER HAIR 6. Esperanza, Monica, Estelle, and co being on her wall 7. HER FREAKING HAIR!
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! she’s STUNNING
Janelle is bae!!! This video is EVERYTHING!!!! Makes me miss ATL so much. If you guys haven’t listened to her “The Electric Lady” album you’re seriously missing out. It’s AMAZING!
Anonymous said: well u are fighting for black rights but if you were dating an asian guy that means you think asian guys are better than black men, you hypocrite. fuck you, it's girls like you that make black men hate the rest of us black women
1. I would actually prefer to date within my race but right now I live in Vancouver which is 51% Asian, and 0.9% Black, the only Black guys I know are family friends or they’re not interested. stop jumping to shit conclusions felicia.
2. If you really think I’m making Black men hate us, you’re confused. Black men as a whole don’t hate us and especially not for dating interracially. If a Black man hates Black women that’s their problem not mine.
3. Get your nasty lameass out of my inbox and move along
You’re so stupid that I’m actually getting off anon and made another blog just so you know how stupid you are. So what if your city is mostly Asian, GO LOOK FOR A BLACK GUY, move or something! That’s a bad excuse and you know it.
You are a joke, and it’s sad, all the black tumblr bloggers would agree with me, look at lovelyandbrown she is married to a Black man AND she’s bringing the Black community together by doing that. Black men are dissing black women because of girls like YOU. Don’t act like it’s Black mens fault for not liking you. If you are pro black then date a black man and stop trying to grow your hair so long instead of instead in an afro. Black men hating us is YOUR problem! Dark skin black women that date outside their race are self hate, and self hate is the main reason for separation in our race.
UHMM. HOLY SHIT.
HOW THE FUCKKKKKKK DID MY BLACK ASS GET DRAGGED INTO THIS?!?!????!
I’d just like the record to reflect that I am not married. No shade to my wonderful boyfriend, but hey.
I seriously doubt that my little relationship is bringing the black community together by dating someone I love. I’m not Bey and he ain’t Hov. That’s very kind, but that is a STRETCH like a MOTHERFUCKER and I simply cannot allow it. That sounds so ridiculous. Like…I am cringing. Just NO.
Also, I don’t date who I date to bring the black community together. That’s weird.
All that aside - you SERIOUSLY cannot be attacking her because she is dating an asian man. That is so. Ridiculous. I am HORRIFIED.
You can fight for black rights and date an asian. You can fight for black rights and date a white person. You can fight for black whites and be WHITE. Like. Our struggle is NOT exclusive to the black community solely. And if it was, OH SHIT. We’d be struggling forever in the state of things now.
Black men hate black women because they date outside the race? You do know that black men marry outside the race about about 25% to a black woman’s 9%? that’s 1/4 compared to less than 1/10. So, even if we were in a mathematical vacuum, if a black woman wanted to be married, she’d HAVE to date outside her race.
In regards to location, in a VERY white city like Vancouver, her statistics are accurate. With a low population and with 25% of those men ALREADY going to date outside of their race….how many men are there left for her? Her cousins and shit? You want her to be a kissing cousin?
You sound so fucking ridiculous saying that she should just MOVE to find a black man. What if she has a job in Vancouver? A family? Should she cross the US/Canadian border just to chase sone chocolate? Or, maybe she actually LOVES this asian man! Maybe he fulfills her and gives her what she needs and loves her. PERHAPS, SIS. PERHAPS.
As far as her hair growing down and not out into an afro….WHAT? THE FUCKKKKKK!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!?!!
DARK SKIN WOMEN WHO DATE OUTSIDE THE RACE, IN MY MOTHERFUCKING OPINION, ARE ON THE GOTDAMN COME UP. MOST OF THESE BLACK MEN DOG US THE FUCKKKKKKKKKK OUT. IF YOU FIND YOU A GOOD MAN WHO LOVES YOU AND SEE THE BEAUTY IN THE EBONY, THE MOCHA, THE CHOCOLATE UNDERTONES, RUN WITH THAT SHIT. Who the fuck are you to say that shit?!!!?!?!?!
I feel GENUINELY CONFUSED. Because apparently you must be a follower of mine and I really enjoy all my followers, or I try to at least. But you are a fucking moron. You had the unmitigated gall to make an account to harass this woman for some basic ass shit like dating outside of her race? I am so…..spent.
I can’t speak for my “husband” but please do me a favor and unfollow theeeeeee fuckkkkk out of me. I literally subscribe to NOTHING that you are saying and I don’t want any of my followers to think I do.
This made me livid. I was married to a black man. I’m not dating a white man. I’m more compatible with the man I’m with now. I could give a fuck what color his skin is.
Fuck you anon, or not anon, you’re an ass hole and completely wrong.
Don’t you looooove when you’re broke so you get gas on credit and then forget to put the $16 in cash that you have in the bank so that your account doesn’t overdraft … so you have to get up at 10 pm on a Sunday to put those $16 in the bank so that you don’t get charged $35 for over drafting by $8.
vagina’s are able to stretch wide enough to give birth to a fucking baby and then return to it’s original size but of course being penetrated by that grass blade you call a penis is what’s going to make it “loose”
Uhh. The baby doesnt come out of where the penis goes in…